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In a world where so many relationships end badly, what does it take to avoid being with the wrong partner and make your relationships work?

The answer is: Emotional Intelligence (EI)

Emotional Intelligence is the ability to understand and manage your own emotions and behaviors as well as those of others. These skills are key to finding out whether you are with the right partner and avoiding partnerships that won’t last or will make you unhappy.

The Key Principles of Emotional Intelligence

Self-Awareness

Understanding what you want and (more importantly) what you don't want in a partner and how your thoughts, feelings and behaviors impact the decisions that you make in your relationships.

Self-Management

Managing your thoughts, feelings and behaviors so that you can relate to your partner effectively and make decisions that are free of assumptions, distortions, or unhealthy reactions.

Social Awareness

Evaluating your partner fully in order to detect unhealthy traits and behaviors that could make your life miserable for years to come as well as to understand what that partner wants and doesn't want so that you can meet their needs.

Relationship Management

Managing your partner’s emotions and behaviors, as well as communicating, negotiating, and resolving conflict skilfully.

How I can help you Increase your Emotional Intelligence skills and achieve your relationship goals?

You will find Emotional Intelligence in all of my work, from Coaching sessions to online courses.

When you start sessions with me, if we both believe that EI can help, you will have the option of signing up to take an Emotional Intelligence assessment designed by a very reputable independent company. This online assessment will take around 20 minutes of your time and will give us invaluable information about the EI skills that need attention. You can take this assessment as an addition to any ongoing sessions that you may have signed up for and receive a report, or as part of a package.

If you decide to sign up for my EI package, here is what you will get:

  1. EI online assessment
  2. Personalized report on your EI skills
  3. Comprehensive questionnaire of symptoms that may be impacting you
  4. My review of the documents
  5. 2- 50-minute online or in-office debriefing session with me

After you have the debriefing sessions, we will continue with individual or couple’s sessions and I will use your results (as well as your partner’s) to help you improve your relationship.

I have spent the last 20 years helping hundreds of people choose the right parters, improve their relationships and leave unhealthy partnerships with Emotional Intelligence and would love the opportunity to share my knowledge and experience with you.

What clients are saying about Emotional Intelligence Coaching with me

Understanding Self and Partner

To be blunt, I was practically unaware that I was missing some important Emotional Intelligence skills until I was at the brink of a breakdown and went to see Dr. Georgiana. I had been giving way too much to others and felt angry and depleted. She helped me understand how over-giving was sending the wrong message and making it easy for people to take advantage of me. I was able to work through my anger and although I sometimes still give more than I should, I also ask and get more of what I need.

Martin M., San Francisco, CA, USA

I was incredibly frustrated by my partner’s constant complaining so I suggested we see Dr. Spradling online for coaching. She helped us understand that it was due to cultural differences, personal preferences and needs. She also taught us to negotiate. We are both making changes everyday to meet each other half way. My partner now talks to me instead of complaining and I listen a lot more than I used to. Can’t tell you how much I appreciate what Emotional Intelligence has done for us.

Marcia. T. Sydney, Australia, USA

Managing Feelings and Behavior

Last year, I had to develop anger management skills. Since childhood, I was afraid of any sign of anger and became very passive to avoid confrontation. I constantly frustrated others when upset. Dr. G made me feel at ease and taught me to resolve conflict in the moment and be more direct when expressing my feelings!! I feel happier and my husband is less angry at me as a result. Getting Dr. G as a coach is the best thing I could have done for my relationship happiness. :)

Lisa P., San Francisco, CA and Mexico City, Mexico

I always struggled with jealousy in my relationships but marrying the woman of my dreams made it ten times worse. I started reading everything she wrote and even followed her a few times. I was miserable and very afraid to lose her. Deep inside, I knew that my wife was faithful to me, but I just couldn’t help myself. Dr. Georgiana helped me manage my thoughts and behavior and understand what I was truly afraid of. Now, when these intrusive thoughts come in, I know how to handle them. Thank you!

Diane G., Berkeley, CA, USA

Negotiating and Resolving Conflict

I have never had more conflict than with the man I married. I found Dr. Georgiana while browsing the internet for help. I was desperate to stop the fighting so I saw her first for online Coaching and then invited my husband to join me. We both took the Emotional Intelligence test and then got some sessions individually and together. In the process, we learned how to communicate in a completely different way. What were once fights and arguments are now discussions, or: “conversations with differences of opinion”, as my husband calls them. I sleep better at night, have more intimate moments with my husband, and actually can concentrate better at work. So happy with our progress.

Lilly S., Ontario, Canada

I walked into Dr. Georgiana’s office with my partner last month and by the time we walked out 50-minutes later, our last straw had turned into hopeful smile on our faces. It’s not that she tells you it will be easy, but that she tells you what she thinks without imposing, so you’re left with the feeling that with her help, tomorrow will be better than today. I see her as a trusted ally in my relationship. She pointed out that we had some deficiencies in Emotional Intelligence Skills when we started, but we all agree that my partner and I have grown tremendously and are much more united and more skilled at negotiating. Dr. Georgiana has coached us online on weekends many times. Can’t beat sitting in your couch after brunch and getting top of the line help!

Mason Z., San Francisco, CA, USA

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